It feels awful when you're misunderstood and unheard. Adults can bridge communication gaps with clarifying conversations. They can use alternative words, analogies, phrases, and other types of verbal communication to get their true point across.

However, when children experience miscommunication, it’s not resolved in the same way. Children are still developing their language skills, and rely on other methods of communication to express their feelings. They have few spoken word skills to explain their feelings and motives.

Therefore, clearing up miscommunication between children and their parents (or other caregivers) can be complicated and frustrating. Children and their parents can end up feeling like they are speaking two different languages. 

So, how can effective communication be established between children and adults?

This is where play comes in - a non-threatening way to identify, explore, and work through difficult emotions. Play is often considered the “first” language of all children - since they become fluent in the act of play before they learn to speak. Therefore, play is a natural pathway for children to express themselves, navigate their emotions, and explore the world around them. 

A trained therapist can tap into the language of play to connect with a child in distress to help them resolve emotional and behavioral issues.

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